08-23-2008
My name is Rich Spankman, locally ( Kansas City area ) Mr. Spankman.
I have been into spanking as long as I remember. As a child in the late 1950's and coming of age in the late 1960s, spanking was everywhere; in the home, school, media, televisiion shows, movies ( I told a BDSM group once, "good enough for John Wayne, good enough for me" )
On a serious note gave my first adult spanking a little over 30 years ago. It was a haphazard affair, teenage girlfiend, she teases me, provokes me into chasing her, warned I'd spank her, the customary dare, over my lap, she gets a small spanking, giggles the whole time and needless to say, we had a blast ( she came back for seconds ).
Years go by and technique is refined. Of course now, all spanking scenes are discussed in advance. I see spanking as simply, FUN. Yes there are disciplanary spankings, but also they are given with the idea of a great time for spankee as well as spanker. ( I treat anyone I spank with a high degree of respect, to me they aren't subs, but part of a team) I'm a firm believer in not just SSC ( safe, sane, consensual ) but also RACK ( Risk, Acpectance, Consensual, Kink ) ALWAYS have had a warm spot for paddles ( thanks to a first grade nun ). In fact my alterternative nickname is Mr. Paddleman.
I have spanked and in some cases been spanked or paddled over the last 30 years. Currently I run a spanking booth at fetish shows in the Kansas City area. Not only hands on spankings ( excused the bun ). Also discussing safety techniques. I have doen numerous demos on paddle spanking and hand sensation spanking for local BDSM groups. I will occasionally get on stage and do an Emcee bit about my spanking background.
Mr. Spankman