I'm the male portion of a happily married couple. He is a straight dominant and enjoys almost all aspects of BDSM, from mild to extreme.....and of course, his 'extreme', her 'extreme' and your 'extreme' more than likely vary greatly, so I guess you'll have to ask to find out.

She is a bisexual bottom and enjoys spankings and other mild discipline. Her bisexuality depends on the relationship with the other woman involved. Our children are grown and on their own.
We enjoy the company of open-minded people and are generally pretty friendly 'normal' people...whatever normal is. LOL!
Everything must be Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC)....well I think Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) probably describes it best.
Don't you just love labels? LOL!