male bottom

[joefaditz]

I am an older male into bare-assed spankings and strappings. If I come to the club, could i restrict what implements are being used to give me a good red bottom?

[gapeach]

the whole "deal" with BDSM is built on SSC.. safe, sane, consensual... and i would be suprised if Ffolks did not discuss a "scene" in advance.. i.e. what toys to use, dynamics of the scene, etc... which also includes the use of a pre-determined safe word..

in a round about way, the bottom/sub kind of does have all the "control" so to say.. as being "forced" to do things, withstand implements they don't want, etc. is NOT SSC.. and if a Top/Dom/me does not respect a safe word, then by all means, it would do us all a great service, if you would please report it to the DM and staff in attendance, as Tthose type Ffolks are (i would hope) not welcome at the club... (looks to MsWhip to make sure i've not overstepped my boundaries with that!)

i will say, i have not played with Aanyone, that Wwe have not discussed things first..

*grins - i have a really bad habit of peeking in toy bags and "picking" my items of ass destruction!

and i will say, that if i put an item in the "no" pile, it is certainly not used.. as i take the time to discuss.. backs up.. i take the time to develop the relationship and trust first.. once you're tied to that cross, it's all based on trust...

so. long story short, yes, you should be able to pick the implements you desire :)

*peachie*