femme bi-dyke sub seeks brilliant top with a sense of irony

[Kiki]

gender is far less important to me than intelligence, aesthetics, and a sense of irony. I tend to prefer older butch dykes, but fags, transguys and fiercely intelligent male-identified sorts -- and the occasional incredibly competent secure femme -- also intrigue me. I need to make individual connections before getting into couples.

I'm in my mid-30s and looking for someone between 29 and 45-ish. Young/social attitude is more important than actual age. Body shape is less important than hot style and genuine sexiness. (I'm sexy, 5'5", white, and chubby.)

Tell me:
- one of your favorite pervy scenarios
- what you like most about bdsm
- your top 5 favorite bands, movies or books
- describe your fashion or decorating taste
- what celebrity do your friends tell you look like?

I'm looking for some initially non-sexual purely bdsm encounters, like bondage, flogging and other sensation-based fun. I am married (but poly) and am not looking for a romantic encounter at this point.

Sorry to be so annoying, but unfortunately it really matters... altho I guess really it's the vibe in person that truly matters...

thankyou Sir,
kiki