Beginning cocksucker seeks advice

[Takuya_patrick]

Hello everyone,

I am searching for technical information and pointers from other submissive males on how to become a cocksucker. Someone who has recently had their first exerience sucking cock would be ideal to help me make this journey - especially someone who found it difficult but was able to overcome the challenges.

Ideally, I am hoping for advice from a predominantly straight submissive male to also share insights on both the physical and psychological aspects of sucking another man's cock. I am mostly hetero and so I don't really want to suck cock in the purely sexual sense. But I am extremely submissive and so I am attracted to the idea of sucking cock as an act of submission to a woman I love precisely because I don't really want to do it for my own gratification. That's what makes it submissive. Someone who shares this perspective with me might be uniquely able to give me advice on how to take this step.

So far, I have never sucked a real cock. If I am able to develop the skills, one of my goals is to give regular blow jobs to the husband of a very close female friend - as a way to be even closer with both of them. But before I offer him regular service, I want to be sure that I am able to handle the physical and mental challenges of having his cock in my mouth. I have sucked on dildos a few times - and have had some jaw trouble (TMJ) with dildos that are too large. Taking it too deep also gives me gag reflex problems.

On the positive side, I recently bought a "cyberskin" dildo - which is said to more closely resemble the feel of a real cock and I've been better able to suck it than hard plastic ones - but I'm not sure if I've reached an endurance that would enable me to service a real cock to completion - or to satisfy its owner that he had been properly blown.

Any comments or advice from cocksuckers who are also just starting out will be appreciated.

Regards,

"patrick"

[CaSlut]

Welcome to our world; that of a man completely in touch with his sexuality. Society puts far too much emphasis on labels - straight, bi, gay, etc. Let out what is already inside - a sexual being who exists to give pleasure. You are doing this for love, but you hope to give regular head to the husband of a very close friend? You are already along the road to becoming a cocksucker, so enjoy the ride.

Praticing on dildos isa great way to start. I agree that cyberskin is nicer than the rigid plastic/vinyl cocks. But, and this is a big but, there is no relationship togoing down on a dildo and taking the real live, warm, thing in your mouth anthroat. I am sure other cocksuckers here would agree.Unless your potential friend has got the dick of death (and if he does, have him post here!) you will not have TMJ. You might gag at first, but dear, pratice does make perfect.

Let us know how it works out.

Takuya_patrick wrote:

Hello everyone,

I am searching for technical information and pointers from other submissive males on how to become a cocksucker. Someone who has recently had their first exerience sucking cock would be ideal to help me make this journey - especially someone who found it difficult but was able to overcome the challenges.

Ideally, I am hoping for advice from a predominantly straight submissive male to also share insights on both the physical and psychological aspects of sucking another man's cock. I am mostly hetero and so I don't really want to suck cock in the purely sexual sense. But I am extremely submissive and so I am attracted to the idea of sucking cock as an act of submission to a woman I love precisely because I don't really want to do it for my own gratification. That's what makes it submissive. Someone who shares this perspective with me might be uniquely able to give me advice on how to take this step.

So far, I have never sucked a real cock. If I am able to develop the skills, one of my goals is to give regular blow jobs to the husband of a very close female friend - as a way to be even closer with both of them. But before I offer him regular service, I want to be sure that I am able to handle the physical and mental challenges of having his cock in my mouth. I have sucked on dildos a few times - and have had some jaw trouble (TMJ) with dildos that are too large. Taking it too deep also gives me gag reflex problems.

On the positive side, I recently bought a "cyberskin" dildo - which is said to more closely resemble the feel of a real cock and I've been better able to suck it than hard plastic ones - but I'm not sure if I've reached an endurance that would enable me to service a real cock to completion - or to satisfy its owner that he had been properly blown.

Any comments or advice from cocksuckers who are also just starting out will be appreciated.

Regards,

"patrick"

[Willow Rain]

Why hello brave explorer,

You will probably hear from other male submissives, but since you don't have a bulk of answers yet, I figured I'd offer a little help. There are tons of sights on the web devoted to cock sucking. Take some time and check them out. I would recomend the vidio "Fire on the Mountain" by the body electric folks to gain some new ideas about how to use your hands on a penis.

Tips to explore:

1. Remember the person you are sucking is more than a penis, don't forget the rest of them, thighs, bottom, belly, chest, wherever you can reach. If you spread the sensation outward it can make the experiance nicer for them.

2. Have fun with it. If you like it and are sincerely trying your best, that goes a long way.

3. Try everything that comes to mind, everything you can think of AND WATCH AND PAY ATTENTION to what they respond to. Repeat stuff that gets positive responces. What you love to have done to yours, may not be what they love to have done to theirs.

4. Use your whole face. Lips, cheeks, tounge, gentle teeth, chin, try rubbing, touching and stroking with lots of the textures of your own body.

5. Tease a little, build antisipation.

6. When you do start stroking their cock with your mouth, press deep enough to just barely get to the point that you feel that reflex. This will make you produce copeous spit which makes everything easier and more fun. It causes rope porn star spit, which I think... most people find hot when it is associated with cock sucking.

7. If you'd like to deep throat. Go slow. You can give a fabulous blow job without this, but it is a fine trick to learn. You will have to start really slow and easy. In time you can learn to have more control over your own gag reflex. It may take a while before you can relax your throat and let someone in, but it totally is possible and it doesn't hurt. You just feel pressure and can't breath for the time it is seated. If you decide to try this, try all kinds of positions until you find the way that cock and your throat fit best. Sir is fricking huge and it makes a big differance how I position myself. Some positions, I can't manage it, some I can nuzzle my nose or chin to his pubic bone with comfort.

8. Try suckling the head and using your tounge like a nursing infant. Try undulating your tounge and making suction when they are deeper. Swirl the head, explore the tender section just under the head that is a sweet spot. Don't forget to see if they like attention to their testicles.

9. Explore!! Have fun!! Whether you make them come or not, they are bound to enjoy the experience. Learn what they like, cater to their needs and desires. I wish you much luck!! And don't be afraid of trying, it is something fun to do. :)

Master Jacks Cocksucker,

Willow Rain

[perfectboyztoy]

Hi Patrick,

I am a primarily hetro (married) sub mail who is still learning. To date, I have given 8-10 blow jobs and I can tell you that there is truly no better sub experience in the universe that taking your master man's load. But your question is technical, so...

I also have the gag problem.I am trying to slowly develop my ability to deep throat so that I can give that ultimate expierence to my man. I also am trying to figure out how to give that silky smooth suck, that I have recieved so many times.I just don't quite know the procedure yet. Key on yet!! For the time being, my goal is to use a lot of tounge, good suction, lots of saliva and minimal teeth. I'm still looking for the secret on the silky smooth suck. If you find out first, please let me know.

Since you also mentioned that you have not yet completed a blow job, I will offer this. My first time, I was so excited to get to that point....but I also was scared.I just sucked it up (so to speak) and took it right in. Once I had that smooth cock in my mouth, instinct took over and all was well. I also took my first load on that first suck. Surprisingly, it was not a surprise, but an ultimate treat. I have cum to luv that salty treat that I can swaloow for my master man. Good Luck!!

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